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Day 12: Confession

Hello beautiful people!

So I read something from Heather Lindsey sometime ago which I didn’t immediately agree with but after a recent experience, I decided to give it a try and I was surprised at the results! It was just as she said it would be.

Confession time…

I’m going to tell you guys something I haven’t shared with anyone yet.

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I was really upset with HusBae sometime last week. I was so mad but I didn’t want to tell him why. In fact, I didn’t even want to talk to him at all. (I hope my marriage counselor doesn’t read this 😂)

I was going to the bathroom and I decided to do what Heather talked about: she said when we start developing ill feelings about someone, we should say a prayer for them. I honestly thought that was a bit of a stretch, like why in the world would I pray for someone who is annoying me? 😒

However this is Mr A whom I cherish so much so as wild as it sounded, I went into the bathroom and started to pray for him. I said a nice, long prayer for him and the longer it went on, the better I felt about him. What I was doing was no longer an intentional act to test out a hypothesis, it was now flowing freely from my heart, rather joyfully too. Within a few minutes, all the anger had dissipated and had been replaced with positive emotions. I couldn’t wait to finish and go talk to him.

So yeah it sounds crazy, it sounds like a stretch, it sounds impossible because let’s be honest no one wants to pray for someone they don’t like but I’ve tried this and it works. I’m going to try it on someone who is not as close to me and I can already see how it’s going to go; negative vibes flushed out and replaced with positive vibes only.

So what do you think about this method? Care to give it a try? Well let me know when you do, I’d love to hear about your experiences!

Always here if you need some encouragement or need to talk:

Love always,

Mrs. A



I'm a young wife, an encourager and a writer at heart, walking in my purpose and following God's lead. I’ve got a heart as big as my hips and I love reaching out to people who are hurting or suffering in silence. I know everyone goes through something at some point in life and through my writing, I want to make such people know that no matter who they are or what they go through, they can count on me to be there for them. Follow my journey as I share my life experiences in the hope of making you go a little harder at whatever you do. 💞always. Mrs A the encourager.

6 thoughts on “Day 12: Confession

  1. I started putting this into practice. Sometimes it’s harder than others an I have to force myself to do it. However it helped me to forgive someone who pissed me all the way off and did so much wrong to my family. I was surprised at how good it felt to pray and now the ill feelings are gone. I haven’t tried it with someone close to me though lol oddly enough

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    1. Oh this is wonderful! I’m glad to read another sister’s experience with it, especially with someone who isn’t close to you. Trust me the ill feelings disappear faster when it’s someone you love lol. Now I’m challenged to try it with someone who’s not that close to me.
      Thanks for reading and sharing your experience xx


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